Warning Wank - I'm no longer a victim, so don't thread me like one!

I'm one of your so called "survivors" ... means: I have gone through a lot of shit in my life. I do have so called "triggers"!

Yet I don't need anyone to warn me of harmful content on the internet!
I know that there is a lot of stuff out there that will upset me... but I can just as easy get triggerd by something someone says on the bus!
I can't go around the world, asking everyone to please, please, please be nice to me and warn for everything that may set one of my triggers off!

I had (and still have) to learn to get my mind back in the present rather then down the angst/panic filled memory lane when a trigger is set off.
(I got a long list from therapy of things to achive that and I'm willing to translate and share it if there is interest)

Of course learning to deal with stuff like that is a lot harder then demanding that the world thinks about the children abused, but it is worth it if you really want to stop being a victim!

PS: Even after 2 years as well as this "discussion"/wank I still feel silly to have put the non/dub-con label on How to handle a werewolf

Cell Phone Meme

Grab Your Phone.
It's my Nokia 7373

What is the 3rd picture of in your phone?
A huge rainbow over the filds behind my work place

What's your ringtone?
Stroke - Apocalyptica

Who's the 1st person that comes up under M?
My Big-Boss

Who's the last person you called?
My boss

Who was your last missed call from?
My boss

Who's the 1st person who comes up under C?
My lazy junior at work

Who's your speed dial number 2?
Speed dial is for people who make a lot of calls

What does 3rd text in your inbox say?
My balance is getting low

Who was your last received call from?
Some girl from the clinic

What does your 2nd sentbox text say?
No Sentbox

How many messages are currently in your inbox?
115

What is the wallpaper?
Something swearly, fitting to the phones bronze color

Who's speed dial number 1?
-

Who is the 15th message from in your inbox?
Someone I meet during a NaNoWriMo Write-in

Who's the 1st person who comes up under B?
The Bon-Jovi-Fangirl

How many bars of signal do you currently have?
The max - 4

What network are you on?
Coop Mobile

Name every person you have a message from in your inbox.
I'll pass on this one

What does your 6th text message in your inbox say?
Spam from a shop

Who is the first person in your contacts?
Some guy I meet a few times

Who is the last name in your contacts?
My former friend and co-worker Y.
(We really need to get in touch again)

What does the last text in your inbox say?
A friend having problems with the Palm she got from me

What is your screensaver?
Some lightspot thing

What is your balance?
6.65 CHF

Who's the last person under H?
There is no H.

What is your bluetooth name?
Blödes Teil (Stupid thing)

How many numbers are in your phone?
Too many

Could you live without it?
I would prefer to live without it